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Liam Hemsworth asks Miley Cyrus to leave him alone

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Miley Cyrus is not known as one who refrains herself and her honesty has caused her to be in hot soup yet again with her former husband last week. The actress-singer got candid about her marriage.

In a series of interviews, the singer said that marrying Liam Hemsworth in 2018 had been “one last attempt to save myself” – arguing that it wasn’t “the fairy tale” everyone made it out to be. She also said there had been “too much conflict” between the pair, and added, “When I come home, I want to be anchored by someone. I don’t get off on drama or fighting.”

Despite everything, the 28-year-old had some pleasant things to say about Liam. The couple had an on and off relationship for a decade and Miley said that she will always love him “very much”. As for Liam Hemsworth, who is now dating model Gabriella Brooks, he is far from being flattered. The actor has reached the end of his tether and is willing to take drastic measures to keep his ex-wife quiet.

Even though they did not work out, Miley Cyrus said she loves Liam Hemsworth very much. Picture: Instagram

“Liam’s a down-to-earth guy, who’s very private and uncomfortable in the spotlight,” says an insider close to the Australian actor, who split from Miley less than a year after they got married.

They added, “He wants her to show a bit more respect for him and not talk about their relationship so much. If she can’t do that, he might have to consider taking out some kind of gagging order.

“He knows that won’t be easy for her, either, as Miley doesn’t like being told what to do, but his patience is running out. He wishes her all the luck in the world, but that chapter is over for him. He had hoped it would be for her, too.”

Born on November 23, 1992, as Destiny Hope Cyrus, Miley Ray Cyrus is an American singer, songwriter, actress, and record producer. Noted for her distinctive raspy voice, her music spans a range of styles, from pop and country-pop to hip hop, experimental and rock.

Miley is the best-selling female artist born in the 1990s and has attained the most US Billboard 200 top-ten albums in the 21st century by a female artist, with a total of thirteen entries. Her personal life, public image, and performances have often sparked controversy and received widespread media coverage. /TISG

Fan Bingbing reveals why she broke up with Li Chen

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The unexpected and surprising breakup between Chinese celebrities Fan Bingbing and Li Chen is one of the most talked-about breakups in Asian showbiz. After a year and a half since they ended their engagement, fans are sceptical of the reason for their breakup (or if they really did split up or not) while some are constantly looking out for signs of reconciliation like a recent OTT (over-the-top) light show. Fan Bingbing recently spoke up on the matter and that will put a rest to the speculation.

The 39-year-old actress told a magazine in a recent interview about the decision to end their relationship and how she felt wronged for her ex. Previously there was hearsay about a third party that came between them and that Li Chen, 42 had left Fan Bingbing due to her tax evasion scandal.

“After the split, many people vilified him ‘cos they were not in our shoes. They didn’t know how difficult it was for us to take each step. At that time, because of my situation, he and my brother [idol Fan Chengcheng] were both implicated. Their jobs were put on hold and they suffered a lot of grievances. I felt really sorry for them. The only thing I could do was to stay away from them, so I don’t affect them,” revealed Bingbing.“I still think he is a very good person, someone who is worthy of my respect, which is why we are still very good friends and I wish him the best in the future.”Although Bingbing did not mention any names, it was assumed that she was referring to Li Chen as they were engaged when the scandal blew up.

Fan Bing Bing was involved in a tax evasion scandal. Picture: Instagram

While everyone, including Bingbing, felt that their split was a pity, she never regretted the choices she made in the relationship and is “very thankful for all the good he had given [her] during these times”.She added: “[If] I like this job, I’ll do it. I love this person, then I’ll just love him. This is a very simple way of thinking. I have never thought about other factors and the consequences.”

After reading the interview, netizens couldn’t help but feel for the actress, with many leaving messages of regret.“I still find it a pity [that they split]”, said one, while another wrote: “I feel she still has feelings [for him]”.The couple went public with their relationship in 2015 and were engaged in 2017. However, a year later, Bingbing’s tax evasion scandal brought their relationship to a halt and they ended their four-year relationship in June 2019. /TISG

K-pop singer BoA “questioned for allegedly importing drugs”

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Seoul — According to reports on Thursday (Dec 17), K-pop singer BoA has been questioned over allegations of smuggling in psychotropic drugs.

On Wednesday, the Seoul Central District Prosecutor’s Office called in the 34-year-old singer to investigate her on suspicion of trying to bring in drugs (including Zolpidem, a prescription drug that induces sleep), from Japan under the name of an employee at her agency, SM Entertainment.

SM Entertainment released a statement saying that the incident was a mistake and that BoA did not have any intention to bring in the drugs illegally.

“Our employee received the drugs at a local hospital following due procedures but was not aware that it could be a problem in South Korea even though the drugs were prescribed normally abroad,” the company said. SM Entertainment said that the singer tried to take the pills she previously used in Japan after experiencing side effects from the sleeping pills she recently received on a doctor’s advice.

BoA has been taking sleeping pills. Picture: Instagram

Prosecutors will decide whether to indict the singer after reviewing the case, including its intentionality. At the age of 14, BoA debuted as a singer and is known as the ‘Star of Asia’ for her popularity in the region and helping create ‘hallyu’ or the global popularity of Korean pop culture, during its early stage. The singer recently released a new album celebrating the 20th anniversary of her debut.

Born on November 5, 1986, Kwon Bo-ah, known professionally as BoA is a South Korean singer, songwriter, record producer and actress. BoA has been recognized as one of the most successful and influential Korean entertainers throughout her career, and is therefore commonly credited as the “Queen of K-pop.”

Born and raised in Gyeonggi-do, South Korea, she was discovered by SM Entertainment talent agents when she accompanied her older brother to a talent search in 1998 and was trained for two years.

Since her debut in August 2000, BoA has released 20 studio albums, 10 in Korean, nine in Japanese, and one in English. On television, she appeared as a judge on the reality competition show K-pop Star (2011–2013), as an actress on the television drama Listen to Love (2016), as a host for the second season of Produce 101 (2017), and as a coach for the third season of The Voice of Korea (2020). /TISG

Death by Firing – is there hope for Aslinda?

A Singaporean woman who travelled to China is now facing the death penalty – she’ll be shot in the head. She’s been incarcerated for more than five years with no legal representation.

Recently, her 17 year old daughter contacted Mr M Ravi, an International Human Rights Lawyer to help her mother. This is the first of a two part series. /TISG

Phase 3 reopening Singapore stirs debate over migrant workers’ conditions amid continued restrictions

Phase 3 reopening Singapore — When a country is being criticised, the reactions from its citizens can be very different.

On Thursday (Dec 17), the New York Times (NYT) published an article in the midst of the phase 3 reopening Singapore with the headline “As Singapore Ventures Back Out, Migrant Workers Are Kept In”. It said that as Singaporeans looked forward to more restrictions being eased with Phase 3 of the country’s reopening on Dec 28, its migrant workers would remain, for the most part, confined to their dormitories.

The writer, Jennifer Jett, quoted Mr Alex Au, the vice-president of Transient Workers Count Too, as pointing out that since almost half of the migrant workers were already showing immunity to the virus, based on the Ministry of Health update on Dec 14, they could be said to be safer than the rest of the population and that tighter restrictions on their movement made no sense.

He said: “The new infection rate is no different from the general population, so why are they still being confined at a terrible cost to their mental health?”

However, in a Facebook post on Friday (Dec 18), retired diplomat and academic Bilahari Kausikan was none too pleased with the NYT story, calling it “sanctimonious” and that it “really misses the point”.

Mr Kausikan said that, while Singapore “initially dropped the ball on these workers” during the phase 3 reopening Singapore, the response to the widespread infections among migrant workers living in dormitories has been nothing short of exemplary.

He said: “We quickly picked the ball up in a way no other country did or could — ensuring that they were paid while not working, among other things — and that’s why the infections both among the workers and the community dropped rapidly.”

Mr Kausikan pointed out that Singapore has had one of the lowest number of Covid-19 deaths in the world. He asked: “Now what does this armchair critic expect?” He also wondered whether the writer, if she lived in the country, or Mr Au would take the migrant workers into their homes.

He said: “The trouble with the sanctimonious and the armchair critics is that they do not realise that not all desirable objectives are compatible or simultaneously realisable. Trade-offs are inevitable and it would be an irresponsible government that put abstract principle above the welfare of its citizens.”

One the other hand, entrepreneur and former Non-Constituency Member of Parliament Calvin Cheng, who is known for his pro-government stance, took another approach to the issue, suggesting a Covid tax that might compensate for the “pain and suffering” of the migrant workers.

He said: “The first thing we have to do is to ACKNOWLEDGE that keeping the workers segregated and limiting their freedom is TRUE.”

And, like Mr Kausikan, he acknowledged that this had been, in effect, a trade-off meant to keep the rest of Singapore safe during the phase 3 reopening Singapore.

But, going one step further, Mr Cheng seemed to suggest that something must be done to make up for the restrictions placed on the migrant workers during the phase 3 reopening Singapore.

“If we accept that this situation has to continue for a while, then we defend it, but make things better for the FWs.

“Yes we can offer words of appreciation, care packages etc but nothing helps more than cold, hard cash.”

Mr Cheng went on to suggest “a Covid tax on all residents in Singapore (except the FWs)” from which an additional sum could be added to the wages of migrant workers “to compensate them for their pain and suffering”.

“Money doesn’t solve all problems but it does go a long way to comfort those in need of it,” he added. /TISG

Read also: Advocate questions why migrant workers are still facing restrictions

Advocate questions why migrant workers are still facing restrictions

Man jumps into zoo’s rhino enclosure just to do a backflip for TikTok video

Singapore — A man trespassed into the Singapore Zoo’s white rhinoceros enclosure on Thursday (Dec 17) to perform a backflip for a TikTok video.

By Friday (Dec 18), the video had been taken down from TikTok, but was reposted on Twitter.

In the video, posted on TikTok user @ralphwee_’s account, a man in a face mask can be seen riding what appears to be one of the zoo’s trams.

The first half of the video was filmed by the man himself, with the text “What’s Ralph thinking about” superimposed on his face.

He is then seen in the white rhino enclosure, with two of the animals in the background. He performs a backflip before running towards and making his way over the fence and out of the enclosure.

@ralphwee_’s account currently has 33,000 followers for his 202 videos.

In a story posted to its official Instagram account, Wildlife Reserves Singapore (WRS),  which manages the zoo as well as the Night Safari, River Safari and Jurong Bird Park, said it was aware of the video.

Photo: Instagram / WRS

It posted a strong message against such behaviour and against any copycat acts because these were dangerous to those engaging in them. It added that such behaviour was also disrespectful to wildlife and its animals.

In response to media queries, WRS said the incident had been reported to the police. /TISG

Young girl who attempted suicide urges PM Lee, MOE to respond to bullying

Singapore — After a suicide attempt due to being bullied by some boys, a young girl wrote a letter to Prime Minister Lee Hsien Loong, now widely shared, urging him “to improve the way schools and MOE (Ministry of Education) respond to bullying”.

The 14-year-old girl, whose name has been redacted for her protection, told Mr Lee: “According to an OECD study, Singapore has the highest rate of bullying globally. Our country is not as big as others yet we are that high up the charts.”

The letter was circulated on WhatsApp and then posted on Facebook. It is not clear when it was written or whether the Prime Minister’s Office has received it.

The girl wrote that she had been “bullied and attacked physically in school, as the school did not protect me. I ended up self-harming and feeling very scared.”

In 2019, when she was in Secondary 1, someone had posted on Tellonym, a free and anonymous messaging app, about the girl.

Another person then shared a screengrab of the post.

When she saw this, she reported it to her academic mentor but received no response from the school. She then told her parents. When they confronted the mentor, the mentor assured them that the school would do something about it.

However, by February 2020, after the mentor left the school, the school claimed to know nothing of the incident and said that the mentor had not reported it.

Meanwhile, the physical and verbal bullying of the girl had continued and even escalated. Two boys in her class threw objects at her, one of which cut her on the lips. One of the boys told her, among other taunts, that “he would go blind and get cancer if he looked at her”.

And while the girl also told of this incident to her mentor, the school claims it did not know about it.

The girl added: “On a few occasions between August and October 2019, a boy hit me on my head, touched my face, and tried to kick me in between my legs while I was seated but luckily I shuffled aside just in time.”

When the girl’s parents approached the school for action to be taken, the discipline master told them on three separate occasions that it was not an appropriate time to talk to one of the bullies as his father was ill, it was exam season and that the boy’s father had passed away.

She added that the school said they had resolved the issue, but what actually happened is that the boy and the girl were pulled aside after assembly, and the boy was asked to apologise to her.

“I was asked then if it was ok. I felt very uncomfortable at having to be so close to someone who had tried to assault me, and quickly said okay so I could leave.”

However, the bullying continued into this year. The girl felt relieved when she started to do her schooling from home because of the Covid-19 pandemic, but when it came time to return to actual classes, she “was terrified and had trouble sleeping”.

She then took an overdose as she “could not bear the thought of having to face my bullies and unknown person/s who wish me dead, not knowing who will attack me next.

“What made it worse was knowing that the school would not protect me.”

The girl spent 12 days in hospital after her suicide attempt and was given an MC for another four weeks.

She has since transferred to another school.

The young teen said: “It’s no use for schools to say they have zero tolerance to bullying when they demonstrate zero or little actions.”

She says she is still traumatised and is in therapy, and that it had been “painful” to write the letter.

“But the reason I want to fight bullying is because I do not want any student or child to feel the same way as I had felt under such circumstances. Something must be done before more kids get hurt.” /TISG

Read also: Why only now? Netizens unhappy that bullying incident at school not addressed earlier

Why only now? Netizens unhappy that bullying incident at school not addressed earlier

 

Volunteers book hotel room for homeless man with their SingapoRediscovers Vouchers

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Singapore — A group of volunteers from the Mummy Yummy Singapore welfare organisation donated their SingapoRediscovers Vouchers to book a hotel room for a homeless man.

The man, who was identified as Jayden, did not have a place to live while waiting for the Housing Board (HDB) to allocate him a rental flat.

In a Facebook post on Mummy Yummy Singapore’s page on Wednesday (Dec 16), the volunteers said: “We used our $100 Rediscover Singapore vouchers to redeem hotel stay for him and successfully booked 9 days worth of stay at 3 days per voucher.”

They added that they were unable to book a longer stay because of higher hotel rates over Christmas and New Year.

The volunteers hoped that they would be able to bridge Jayden’s stay until he got a flat.

“Thanks our government for giving us these vouchers which in return we can put them to good use for people in need,” they added.

In an update on Friday (Dec 18), the organisation said that Jayden had received an email from the HDB informing him that he would be getting his rental flat on Dec 22.

“Currently his hotel stay ends at 23rd December so it is a huge blessing for everyone to have this case settled so quickly,” the group wrote.

Its members extended their thanks and gratitude to all who had reached out to them and had offered their vouchers to help Jayden. /TISG

Prince William and Prince Harry bond over Panorama interview investigations

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In November 1995, Princess Diana was interviewed by Panorama host Martin Bashir and now her son, Prince William is “demanding answers” as BBC investigates. The latest Sunday Times reported that Bashir created fake bank statements to manipulate Diana’s brother Spencer into helping negotiate the interview.

That means Princess Diana’s Panorama chat may have been unethically obtained and it may be why Prince William and his brother Prince Harry would want answers.

An insider told US Weekly, “William is demanding answers and is determined to get to the bottom of it and to find out the truth. For William, this particular interview is still very raw. Harry is angry about the interview and shadiness of it all, too.”

An interesting development that has come out of this investigation into their mother’s interview is that William and Harry have bonded over the matter. The insider added, “The investigation has had a positive effect on William and Harry’s relationship. They’ve bonded over it and are speaking more frequently on Zoom and WhatsApp. William has come to terms with the reasons behind Harry’s decision to leave the royal family and is happy to see his brother so settled, and Harry’s come to the realization that he no longer wants a dark cloud hanging over his head.”

Prince William wants answers from Princess Diana’s interview with Panorama. Picture: Instagram

According to People, Prince William released a rare public statement about the interview in November, saying, “The independent investigation is a step in the right direction. It should help establish the truth behind the actions that led to the Panorama interview and subsequent decisions taken by those in the BBC at the time.”

Since Prince Harry and Meghan Markle left their royal duties this year, the relationship between the brothers remained strained. However, recent reports showed that the siblings have reconciled. According to Vanity Fair, their relationship is “much better than it was.”

It was reported that they are now in regular contact and the Sussex family has sent Christmas presents to Prince William and Kate Middleton‘s family. “I have no doubt they will be video calling each other over Christmas,” a friend told the magazine.

The friend also added how Prince Harry feels now that he’s almost a year out from the bombshell decision. “There are certain things he misses, but nothing so much that he regrets moving,” said the friend. “He’s found a kindred spirit in Meghan, they are creating a new life. That’s so very exciting for them both.”

The Whispering House and 38 Oxley Road

Many years ago, when I was a teenager, I read a British ghost story titled The Whispering House.

In that story, the male protagonist was shot dead by a young woman in the house, because a malign spirit made its inhabitants evil. Unlike that ghost story set in 20th century England, Singapore founding Prime Minister Lee Kuan Yew’s house at 38 Oxley Road did not make its inhabitants evil. It has, however, set his children against each other.

While he was alive, Lee Kuan Yew espoused Confucian values. Tragically and ironically, before the traditional Chinese Confucian mourning period of three years after his death in March 2015 was over, the quarrel among his children became public.

Since mid-2017, his daughter Wei Ling and younger son Hsien Yang launched on Facebook a series of allegations that their elder brother, Prime Minister Lee Hsien Loong, had behaved improperly over their father’s house. PM Lee denies the allegations.

The dispute has spilled over into a recent penalty against Hsien Yang’s wife, Lee Suet Fern,  and a libel lawsuit by PM Lee against Terry Xu, chief editor of the Online Citizen, a local web newspaper. PM Lee is suing Xu for an article in the publication in August 2019 which repeated allegedly defamatory statements by his siblings.

Like The Whispering House, a High Court hearing over the defamation lawsuit on Dec 1 had a hint of the supernatural.

Mr Lim Tean, the lawyer representing Xu, cross-examined PM Lee that day. According to sources at the hearing, Mr Lim, the founding leader of the  opposition Peoples Voice party, asked the Prime Minister: “Your siblings are correct, aren’t they, when they say that you wanted to keep the house to inherit Lee Kuan Yew’s credibility?”

PM Lee replied: “I think that is rubbish.”

Inheriting the “credibility” of the late father of independent Singapore is somewhat similar to the superstitions of some South-east Asian peoples, who believe the homes and heirlooms of dead rulers emit supernatural aura which can endow people who come close to them with magic powers.

PM Lee added: “I have been Prime Minister for 16 years and if I still depend on living in a particular house in order to exude a magic aura and overawe and impress the population, I think I am in a very sad state and Singapore would be in a very sad state.”

It is commendable that PM Lee said this. Another Asian leader, Chiang Kai Shek, failed to realise this.

The late leader of Nationalist China had a mausoleum built to his predecessor, Sun Yat Sen, the father of Republican China, after Sun died in March 1925.

I have visited this mausoleum in Nanjing, China, which was completed in 1929. That monument is impressive, set on Purple Mountain with a panoramic view which has to be climbed up many steps. Sun’s mausoleum was near the tomb of Zhu Yuanzhang, the founding emperor of the Ming Dynasty.

Whether there was any aura in Sun’s mausoleum and Zhu’s grave, they failed to save Chiang from losing mainland China to the Chinese Communists, who defeated the Nationalist armies and drove him to Taiwan in 1949.

Thus Chiang forfeited the mandate of heaven to Mao Zedong, who became China’s ruler on Oct 1, 1949. According to ancient Chinese belief, heaven bestowed its mandate on a dynasty to rule China, but if the dynasty was guilty of corruption and misrule, it was justified for rebels to overthrow that dynasty. Chiang had admitted his defeat was due to loose discipline in his Nationalist Party and his party’s inability to serve the Chinese people well.

Chiang heavily milked Sun’s legacy to buttress his legitimacy as China’s leader. When Chiang ruled China, government offices and schools contained Sun’s portraits, to whom people had to bow on certain occasions. Nationalist Chinese banknotes contained Sun’s face. Singapore banknotes do not have an image of Lee Kuan Yew.

Chiang’s failure bears the lesson that a country’s leader should fortify his legitimacy not with monuments but with good governance.

The Oxley saga is partly similar to Gianni Schicchi, an Italian opera composed in the early 20th century by Giacomo Puccini. In that opera, a wealthy Italian man dies leaving a will, then his relatives fight over his house. The opera is named after Gianni Schicchi, an Italian man who changed the will to bequeath the house to himself.

In late November, the Court of Three Judges suspended Suet Fern, a high-powered corporate lawyer, for 15 months. The judges found her guilty of misconduct unbefitting the legal profession, saying she had “blindly followed the directions of her husband, a significant beneficiary under the very will whose execution she helped to rush through”.

In a statement to media, she disagreed with the decision.

Schicchi, who deliberately tampered with a will, is based on a character in the 14th century epic poem, the Divine Comedy, composed by the great Italian poet Dante Alighieri. In the poem, Dante consigned Schicchi to hell for forging a will.

Although the judges temporarily suspended Suet Fern, their judgement said she did not act dishonestly in her dealings with her father-in-law. While the judges found Suet Fern’s legal behaviour imperfect, she cannot be compared in moral turpitude with Schicchi.

The opera Gianni Schicchi ends to the shock of the relatives who were hoping to gain the house, with the house going to Schicchi.

Then again, a Singaporean film-maker can create a fictitious ghost movie based on the Oxley saga. I have never been inside the house but I have walked along Oxley Road. I feel the neighbourhood, with many dense leafy trees, can be spooky at night.

Gentle reader, whether you have any religious beliefs or none, whether you believe in the supernatural or not, the longer and more acrimonious this Singapore drama is, the worse the vibes which will be generated.

Toh Han Shih is a Singaporean writer in Hong Kong. The opinions expressed in this article are his own.