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‘Purely irresponsible’ – GMS hits out at WP for leaving Marine Parade uncontested

SINGAPORE: While the public domain has been filled with praise for the slate of candidates the Workers’ Party (WP) put forward on Nomination Day (April 23), the party has also drawn criticism — both for declining to contest Marine Parade–Braddell Heights GRC and declining to communicate this decision to other political parties, which could have given voters in the ward a choice.

One of the most vocal critics has been People’s Power Party (PPP) chief Goh Meng Seng, a former WP member, who has called the move “purely irresponsible”.

Visibly teary-eyed as he spoke to the media, Mr Goh said he felt angry about the WP’s decision that has led to the ruling party winning the ward by walkover. “Anger filled up my mind. Sadness came to my eyes in tears and disappointment is deep down,” he said.

Revealing that his party would have stepped in the gap had the WP been open about their limitations in contesting the ward, he added, “We should not deprive voters of their rights … It is ironic that the slogan for WP is ‘Working for Singapore’, but do you work when you deprive voters of the right to vote?

“If they had made known they were going to abandon Marine Parade, we would have been game enough to say … We will move on to pick it up. When you abandon people without coordination, it is purely irresponsible.”

Mr Goh is not alone in his criticism. Netizens reacting to the news online have also been critical. One netizen – a resident of Marine Parade – said, in a highly liked comment, “Utterly disappointed in WP for abandoning us and denying us of our right to cast our votes.”

He added, “All they had to do was communicate with other opposition parties to make sure there is contest but I guess WP sees themselves too up to talk to the other parties.”

The WP has said that it made the “very difficult decision” not to contest the redrawn Marine Parade-Braddell Heights GRC in order to focus its best efforts on a smaller number of constituencies.

Party chief Pritam Singh said on Facebook: “As a small opposition party, we are constantly faced with difficult choices about where and how best to deploy our limited resources, particularly after electoral boundaries are redrawn.

“After much reflection and careful consideration, we have determined that in order to continue fighting for the principles and changes we all believe in, and to give our candidates the best chance of electoral success, the party must focus its best efforts this GE on a smaller number of constituencies than we would have hoped to contest.”

Responding to the press on whether its decision was a miscalculation, Mr Singh said: “I’m sure the PAP was watching who was going to Marine Parade as well so these decisions also were taken, as you would have realised, over the hour between nomination opening and nomination closing.”

He added: “So, it’s not a case as if everyone knew in advance that the PAP would field a slate – I’m not going to say it’s a weakened slate because there are no such thing as weak candidates in my view. It’s going to be a very tough election for us.

“I’m sure they were watching where we were going, but this is what we’ve decided to do.”

Hoping that voters can understand his decision, he said, “It doesn’t mean we are gone. We will continue our work there after the general elections, but I hope you understand we’re a small political party.

“We try and put the best foot forward when we have to fight an election campaign, and this is the strategy that we have taken for this election, given what had happened with the boundary redrawing and other calculations that the Workers’ Party certainly has to take into account.”

While the party chief’s assurances have appeased some people, others have criticised Mr Singh’s strategy of avoiding negotiations with other political parties.

Some observers are asking if this strategy has set the opposition cause back and whether the party could have reconsidered its stance in the best interests of all Singaporeans.

Residents sceptical of hot tubs to be built at Nee Soon East Oasis Waterpark say it’s only a matter of time before they are soiled

SINGAPORE: After a flyer announcing upcoming upgrades in Nee Soon Group Representation Constituency (GRC) revealed that two hot tubs would be added to the Nee Soon East Oasis Waterpark, some residents were quick to express scepticism. While the new amenities were welcomed by some, others raised concerns about hygiene, with several commenting that it’s “only a matter of time” before the hot tubs are soiled or misused—citing worries about people urinating in the water.

An online user took to a public forum on Monday (Apr 21) to share a photo of a flyer highlighting upcoming estate improvements around Yishin Ring Road. One upcoming project entailed installing two hot tubs at Nee Soon East Oasis Waterpark near Blk 307 Yishun Road.

However, in response to the news, many Singaporeans raised hygiene concerns, arguing that it is only a matter of time before someone does something unhygienic in the hot tubs or washes their clothes in it. “Sembawang hot springs have had many people doing unhygienic things. What makes them think it will be any different?” said one.

Others weren’t so excited about the news. “That is probably the most disgusting thing I can imagine,” said another. “Just thinking about how much (dirt) and urine is gonna be in these things after one week…”

Still, others found the photo a bit misleading, as some thought the hot tubs were going to be placed out in the open. However, one pointed out that jumping to conclusions based on a headline wasn’t very smart. “This is part of the Oasis Waterpark at Nee Soon East, which is a gated area featuring waterpark features for the community. It’s already an existing park, and this is just an addition of new features.”

Public hot tubs and hygiene

While hot tubs provide certain benefits, such as therapeutic relief and treatment for joint inflammation, as well as rejuvenating and relaxing properties, there are also several hygiene concerns that people should be aware of.

When we step into a hot tub, things on our skin are deposited in the water. The more people who get into the hot tub, the more dirt gets in. Because of this, hot tubs can be a breeding ground for bacteria, viruses, and fungi. Given this, personal hygiene and water treatment maintenance are key.

See also: ‘There was no toilet paper—totally no improvement!’ JB mall visitor says toilets haven’t changed in eight years

DPM Gan Kim Yong moved from CCK GRC to Punggol GRC

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SINGAPORE: A veteran in an unfamiliar battleground, Deputy Prime Minister (DPM) Gan Kim Yong is leading the People’s Action Party (PAP) team in the newly formed four-member Punggol Group Representation Constituency (GRC), leaving behind Chua Chu Kang GRC, which he served as a Member of Parliament for 14 years.

Gan’s entry into Chua Chu Kang remained a closely guarded secret until Nomination Day on Wednesday (Apr 23).

The DPM arrived at the nomination centre in Yusof Ishak Secondary School in Punggol Central at approximately 11.30 a.m. to hand in his nomination papers for Punggol GRC.

The other members of the PAP team in the GRC are Dr Janil Puthucheary, Sun Xueling, and Yeo Wan Ling.

Until Nomination Day, several assumptions abounded about who would anchor the PAP slate for Punggol GRC.

With 123,557 voters, Punggol GRC was created after the Electoral Boundaries Review Committee recommended carving it out from the Punggol estates in Pasir Ris-Punggol GRC and merging it with Punggol West SMC.

Piquantly, the veteran Gan will be facing a team of newbies.

The PAP will be challenged by the Workers’ Party, which is fielding newcomers Harpreet Singh, Jackson Aw, Siti Alia Abdul Rahim Mattar, and Alexis Dang.

As Mr Gan addressed his supporters, he clarified that the election will all be about the future of Singapore as a nation and for the betterment of the lives of thousands of young Singaporeans. “We are facing challenges; our economy and our jobs are at stake, but we believe that if we work together, work as a team, we will overcome these challenges,” Mr Gan emphasised.

He likewise talked to the media and said that while he is new to the Punggol GRC, he vows to learn fast and learn as fast as he can.

According to Dr Janil, the PAP team is capable of bringing good jobs to the Punggol Digital District, can very well deal with transport-related problems in Punggol, and can maintain the cleanliness and safety of the estate.

Immediately after the confirmation of his candidacy, Mr Gan assured supporters that his team would continue to offer sincere hard work to gain the trust and confidence of the people and “to continue to serve you for the next five years and secure a better future,” he added.

Many reporters inquired about the reasons that prodded the surprise move, how the decision was made and when it was made.

Mr Gan responded that whenever the team makes a deployment, it is always a consideration made by party leadership based on numerous factors. He made it clear that the residents are always decisive factors. “Plans are always made depending on availability of candidates; we always need to make the adjustments,” he further explained.

Hash browns and green bean soup: Singaporeans share memories of growing up poor

SINGAPORE: Singaporeans who experienced poverty during their childhood came together in a heartfelt online thread after one user shared a striking memory—surviving on hash browns and green bean soup while growing up in a low-income household. The post struck a chord, prompting an emotional wave of responses from others who also grew up with limited means.

“For those who grew up poor, what’s your strongest memory?” the writer asked. “I will start. I wasn’t super poor, but there was a period of time I kept being fed hash browns and green bean soup because these were cheap when bought in bulk and easy to prepare for a large family.” He shared that up until this day, he still has a “visceral fear” of the two kinds of food.

The impact of growing up poor on the adult mind

According to Therapy Cincinnati, growing up in poverty can have a significant effect on a child’s brain development and mental health, which often shows up in different ways in adulthood.  Childhood trauma revolving around being poor has a significant impact on an adult’s feelings, behaviour, and thoughts.

This seemed to be the case as many people took to the comments section of the post and shared their core memories around growing up poor. “Phobia of not having enough money,” one said. “Kept being told that my dad was going to lose his job soon, from when I was in secondary 2 till JC (but he didn’t lose his job [until] I was in my 20s), and as the eldest, I’d have to be sensible and help the family save money. I felt so much guilt taking pocket money and deprived myself of so many experiences that my peers had at that age.

“Not [until] I was a working adult, I told my friends this story and they were horrified because it’s not normal for parents to expect their kids to shoulder this burden, as what can a teenager do?

“But I was always wise beyond my years and hyper-independent because I grew up not being protected and went through a lot compared to people my age. Also influenced me to be child-free because I don’t want to subject my kid to such economic suffering.”

Many others chimed in with deeply personal and seemingly random memories—eating canned food so often as kids that they now can’t stand the taste, receiving hand-me-down toys from uncles, or watching their mothers quietly sacrifice by ordering just one meal when eating out. From the lighthearted to the heart-wrenching, these stories show how growing up poor leaves a lasting imprint and shapes different factors of adult life, from spending habits to resilience and the perception of sacrifice, discipline, and love.

See also:  ‘My dad has a gambling addiction, but my mother has to work to pay off his debts’ — 23 y/o daughter reveals her mental struggles

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GE2025: Sembawang GRC faces three-way contest among PAP, SDP, and NSP

SINGAPORE: In what is shaping up to be one of the most meaningful races this election, Sembawang GRC will see a three-cornered fight as Singapore heads to the polls on May 3, 2025. With rising costs, changing demographics, and a population hungry for authentic connection, the contest is more than just political—it’s about three vastly different ideologies.

The official confirmation came on Nomination Day (April 3): three parties, three distinct paths, and one critical decision for voters in the north.

The incumbents: People’s Action Party (PAP)

Led by Health Minister Ong Ye Kung, the PAP team is banking on its track record of infrastructural development and steady leadership. The full slate includes:

  • Ong Ye Kung
  • Vikram Nair
  • Mariam Jaafar
  • Gabriel Lam
  • Ng Shi Xuan

Their message is one of continuity and stability, emphasising national strength in uncertain global times, but this year, they face energised challengers offering Singaporeans something different.

The challenger: Singapore Democratic Party (SDP)

With a platform rooted in compassion, accountability, and economic justice, SDP is contesting Sembawang with:

  • Bryan Lim Boon Heng (Vice-Chairman)
  • Dr James Gomez (Deputy Head of Policy)
  • Surayah Akbar
  • Damanhuri Abas
  • Alfred Tan

In their speeches, SDP highlighted the rising cost of living, the Goods and Services Tax (GST) hikes, and widening inequality.

“Don’t just survive—thrive,” said Dr Gomez. “Be the catalyst for change. We deserve a government that cares for people, not just profits.”

SDP promises bold reform: fairer taxation, stronger social safety nets, and a vision of Singapore where no one is left behind.

The Wildcard: National Solidarity Party (NSP)

Standing as a grassroots alternative focused on empathy and lived experience, NSP’s team consists of:

  • Rienar Andia
  • Wil Chunghan
  • Marina Hong
  • Yazi Iris
  • Damuri bin Abbas

Their campaign struck a deeply human chord.

“We are not elites—we are parents, professionals, workers just like you. We understand the struggles of raising children, caring for elders, and making ends meet.”

NSP is pushing for housing solutions, caregiver support, mental health policies, and jobs with dignity. Their promise? Not polished press conferences, but presence — in markets, at void decks, and with the people every day.

A turning point for the north?

Sembawang GRC isn’t just another battleground—it’s a bellwether for where Singapore’s political soul may be headed. With three distinct voices vying for the hearts of voters, residents here face a clear and consequential choice:

  • Stability with the PAP
  • Reform with the SDP
  • Grounded empathy with the NSP

In the weeks to come, as walkabouts begin and manifestos are unveiled, one thing is clear: the future of Sembawang will not be decided by slogans, but by vision, courage, and connection.

Stay tuned to The Independent for daily coverage and real-time updates from the ground.

Changi Beach reopens for water activities after Johor oil spill clean-up, says NEA

SINGAPORE: Changi Beach has officially reopened for swimming and water activities following weeks of closure due to the Johor oil spill. The National Environment Agency (NEA) announced that water quality at the popular coastal site has returned to safe levels.

In a brief public update, NEA stated: “The water quality at Changi Beach is now back to normal. You may now swim and take part in water activities there.”

This marks a key milestone in Singapore’s environmental recovery efforts after the spill, which originated from a pipeline leak at Langsat Terminal near the Johor River and released 1.6 cubic metres of very low sulphur fuel oil into surrounding waters.

Singapore’s swift response

Singapore’s response minimised the harm from the spill. They issued timely advisories, initiated clean-up operations, and intensively monitored water quality across affected areas. Both Changi and Pasir Ris beaches were also closed on April 3 as a precautionary measure for public health and marine life.

Environmental authorities have been working very hard to control the impact of the oil spill. They also did water quality tests to determine when it would be safe to lift restrictions. These actions signify Singapore’s strong environmental protocols and commitment to public safety.

Environmental impact extends beyond recreation

The spill had significant ecological impact; Chek Jawa Wetlands and several East Johor Strait fish farms reported contamination. Marine wildlife was at risk, and aquaculture operations, like that of the De Kelong fish farm, were forced to halt temporarily.

The Singapore Food Agency (SFA) allayed food safety concerns by confirming that seafood, both imported and locally farmed, underwent stringent testing and remained safe for consumption.

Reopening follows earlier announcement at Pasir Ris Beach

This development follows a similar announcement on April 15, when NEA lifted the swimming advisory at Pasir Ris Beach after water quality there had also stabilised. At the time, the authorities had stated that Changi Beach would remain closed to the public.

The reopening of both beaches signifies progress in environmental recovery efforts. It also reassures beachgoers and local businesses that are reliant on coastal tourism and recreation.

Public sentiments show relief and concerns

Online comments have been both positive and sceptical about water cleanliness. One user remarked, “Oil or no oil, the coastal areas are too dirty for swimming.” This reflects the people’s concerns about the overall state of the beach.

Others were more positive, commenting, “Oh my gosh!” to show their relief. Another added, “Good job has been done!”.

These responses echo a broader public sentiment that, while grateful for the swift action, also recognises the need for long-term environmental stewardship.

Balancing recovery with future prevention

Authorities and environmental advocates continue to emphasise the importance of proactive safeguards to prevent future spills. Such incidents serve as a reminder of how fragile the environment is and how human actions can have devastating consequences.

The reopening is a welcome development, but it also underscores the importance of maintaining vigilance, both in environmental regulation and in fostering public awareness around marine conservation. Cleanups are only a temporary fix, and more long-term measures must be taken to avoid recurrences.

GE2025: Dr Chee secures clean fight with Poh Li San in Sembawang West SMC

SINGAPORE: The stage is set for a high-stakes showdown in the newly carved electoral division of Sembawang West, where the Singapore Democratic Party (SDP) has officially fielded its veteran leader, Dr Chee Soon Juan, against incumbent Member of Parliament Poh Li San of the People’s Action Party (PAP).

At the close of nominations on Wednesday (April 23), only two candidates were declared, ensuring a much-anticipated one-on-one contest in a year crowded with multi-cornered fights elsewhere.

The returning officer confirmed the final slate under the scorching afternoon sun:
“From the west, representing the Singapore Democratic Party, Dr Chee Soon Juan. And from the People’s Action Party, Ms Poh Li San. As such, the election will proceed between these two individuals on May 3rd.”

Both candidates delivered brief speeches following the formalities. Dr Chee, ever fiery and poetic, rallied the crowd with a vision of hope over fear.

“We want Singaporeans to live in hope, not fear. To get back—not just get by. To thrive, not just survive,” he declared in a passionate one-minute speech, urging voters to join the SDP’s movement for change.

Poh Li San, a former Singapore Armed Forces helicopter pilot and current PAP Member of Parliament, has kept a lower profile in the early campaign trail, but her incumbency and the PAP’s deep roots in the area give her a significant advantage in ground support and resources.

However, the SDP sees the straight fight as a golden opportunity. The absence of third-party contenders allows the party to channel all its energy into contrasting its vision with that of the ruling party without the risk of vote-splitting.

Clean fight, clear choice

In a GE packed with battleground Group Representation Constituencies and three-cornered fights, the duel in Sembawang West stands out for its clarity. With no distractions or tactical withdrawals needed, voters here face a clean, direct choice between two distinct visions for Singapore.

Dr Chee, who has spent over two decades as an opposition leader, appears more resolute than ever.

“Join our rallies. Vote SDP,” he closed, to cheers from supporters.

Whether his renewed messaging can finally turn the tide remains to be seen, but one thing is certain—Sembawang West will be one to watch come May 3.

Stay tuned to The Independent for the latest coverage of GE2025—straight from the ground.

‘This morning’s developments have been wild,’ commenters say of Nomination Day twists and surprises

SINGAPORE: Nomination Day for this year’s polls has been particularly exciting, with a number of twists, turns, and surprises that appear to have caught many Singaporeans off guard.

For the first time since 2011, there has been a walkover, with the ruling People’s Action Party’s (PAP) slate at the newly minted Marine Parade-Bradell Heights Group Representation Constituency (GRC) going uncontested. It had been previously thought that The Workers’ Party (WP) would field a team there, given that it had won 57.74% in the last election and that its members have been active on the ground for many years.

WP chief Pritam Singh explained why the party chose the  “very difficult decision” not to contest: “to give our candidates the best chance of electoral success, the party must focus its best efforts this GE (General Election) on a smaller number of constituencies than we would have hoped to contest.”

The move of Manpower Minister Tan See Leng from Marine Parade to lead the PAP slate at Chua Chu Kang, as well as that of Deputy Prime Minister Gan Kim Yong, who had been at Chua Chu Kang since 2011, to East Coast GRC. Minister for Culture, Community and Youth Edwin Tong was moved from Marine Parade GRC to anchor the PAP team at Jurong GRC, where he will be up against The Workers’ Party’s rising star Harpreet Singh, a Senior Counsel of the Supreme Court.

Perhaps less surprising were the announcements from Deputy Prime Minister Heng Swee Keat and Senior Minister Teo Chee Hean that they were stepping down, especially since the two men have served Singapore for many years now.

As for the opposition Workers’ Party, it showed a few strategic moves of its own, fielding Aljunied MP and party vice-chair Faisal Manap to lead the slate at Tampines GRC, where there will be a four-cornered fight as the National Solidarity Party and the People’s Power Party are also fielding candidates to challenge the incumbent PAP team.

“This morning’s developments have been wild. Truly jaw-dropping moves from all sides,” wrote a Reddit user.

Commenting on the last-minute candidates, another wrote, “If the political parties have to resort to swapping around chess pieces last minute to dodge or counter, they don’t deserve the votes of the people they are supposed to represent and fight for. This is not a game of cards, and the average person can see and know that the joker being swapped in has never been present in their GRC/SMC before.”

“I think we need to vote for the voice that can best represent the people in Parliament as well as the person who has been walking the ground and connecting with ordinary folk,” one wrote.

As for the walkover in Marine Parade-Bradell Heights, a Reddit user wrote that while they understood where the WP chief was coming from, he/she added, “I wish I had the chance to vote.”

Another appeared to feel the same way, writing, “This would’ve been my first time voting smh.”

“In hindsight, having multi-corner fights are better than walkovers,” chimed in another. /TISG

Read also: After 10 years, PAP wins a seat by walkover as WP declines to pursue Marine Parade

ACL 2 final: Sailors and Sharjah locked in dispute over Jalan Besar Stadium

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SINGAPORE: The stage is set for a historic Asian Football Federation’s Asian Champions League (ACL) Two final appearance for Lion City Sailors, but tensions are already building up off the field even before they face opponents Sharjah Football Club from the United Arab Emirates (UAE) on Sunday, May 18, in Singapore.

Channel News Asia reported that Sharjah had expressed reservations about the stadium for the final, requesting a change in venue as they do not want to play at the Jalan Besar Stadium. The UAE club are seeking an “allocation of a suitable stadium worthy of the AFC ACL Two final.” 

In a statement to the media over the weekend, Sailors mentioned that they are working closely with AFC, Sport Singapore, and the Football Association of Singapore on the venue arrangements for the AFC Champions League Two final.

“We want to state our position clearly: this final must be played in Singapore. This is our home, and as the club that has earned the right to host the final, we believe it is only fair and proper that it takes place on Singaporean soil,” said the Sailors in their media release on April 19.

The club explained that Jalan Besar Stadium has been a certified AFC Champions League Two venue that meets the AFC’s regulations and requirements throughout the competition, successfully hosting six home matches in this tournament alone.

“We are excited about the significance of this final—not just for our club, but for Singapore football. Hosting the final in Singapore would not only be a just conclusion to our Champions League Two campaign, but a proud moment for Singapore football on the continental stage.

“We believe that hosting such a high-stakes match on home soil can serve as a much-needed catalyst to uplift the local football scene and reignite national pride in the sport,” added the Singapore Premier League club.

ACL 2 QF 2nd Leg: Sailors taking on Sanfrecce Hiroshima at the Jalan Besar Stadium on March 12. (Photo credit: Lion City Sailors FC)

While the Bishan Stadium has traditionally served as the main home ground for the Sailors, the Singapore Premier League club has utilised the Jalan Besar Stadium for their home matches in regional and the second-tier continental club competition.

All three of their ACL 2 group stage home matches were played at the Jalan Besar Stadium, where they secured wins against China’s Zhejiang FC and Port FC from Thailand, and suffered a defeat against Indonesia’s Persib Bandung.

In the knockout round, the Sailors comfortably cruised to a 7-2 aggregate win against Thailand’s Muangthong FC, winning 3-2 and 4-0 in the first and second leg, respectively.

Head coach Aleksandar Rankovic’s side were handed a lifeline in the quarter-final after their 6-1 loss to Sanfrecce Hiroshima (Japan) on March 5 was overturned as their opponents had fielded an ineligible player.

A 3-0 win was awarded to the Sailors, and they held their Japanese counterparts to a 1-1 draw in the return leg seven days later to seal a place in the semi-finals.

EARNING A SPOT IN THE ACL TWO FINAL

The Sailors delivered a commanding performance against Australia’s Sydney FC in the ACL Two East Region semi-final first leg tie at the Jalan Besar Stadium on April 9 to secure a 2-0 win, with a goal each from Bart Ramselaar and Lennart Thy.

Although the Sailors lost 1-0 in the second leg, their defence remained resolute and managed to fend off Sydney attacks, as the Singapore side secured a 2-1 aggregate victory to book their spot in the ACL Two final.

“We knew we were going to be under a lot of pressure. Sydney had to throw everything at us. But I think we did a really good job. They had their chances, but honestly, we had a few good ones of our own that could’ve killed the tie,” said head coach Rankovic after their match in Sydney, as quoted on the Sailors’ official website.

“What we’ve done is an unbelievable achievement for a Singaporean club. I’m still waiting for someone to wake me up — but honestly, I don’t want to be awake. I want to keep dreaming… and let’s hope we can go all the way.”

ACL 2 Semi-Final Second Leg: Lion City Sailors starting line-up against Sydney FC. (Photo credit: Lion City Sailors FC)

Sailors’ defender and former Sunderland captain Bailey Wright had expected the opponents to put up a fierce challenge to overturn the tie in the second leg.

“We knew we were going to be up against some real quality. We’ve had our moments of luck, but I believe you earn that through hard work, commitment, and preparation. As a defender, you relish games like these, where you have to fight for every ball and truly earn the result, no matter how difficult it is,” said Wright, who had previously played more than 100 games for Sunderland in England.

Sharjah FC, Sailors’ opponent in the ACL Two Final, staged a comeback against Al Taawoun (Saudi Arabia) in the West Region semi-finals, overturning a 1-0 first-leg deficit with a convincing 2-0 victory in the second leg to secure their spot in the May 18 final.

‘Cannot even shower in peace in the morning’: Girl says her 60 y/o father turns off the heater and lights while she showers because they are struggling financially

Cannot even shower in peace in the morning
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SINGAPORE: A 17-year-old girl took to social media on Tuesday (April 22) to vent her frustration over her family’s financial struggles and how these have disrupted daily life at home. In her post, she shared that, after she expressed a desire to start showering in the mornings instead of only at night, her 60-year-old father began turning off the water heater and lights while she was in the shower—all in the name of saving on electricity. His justification? He is the one paying the bills. The post got a response from people online. Many defended the cause of taking cold showers in the morning, while a few encouraged the young girl to find ways to work around the situation.

“Cannot even shower in peace in the morning.” This was the title of a post written by a teenager in a public forum. “To set the stage, recently, times have been tough, and my family is struggling financially,” she said. “My dad (60M) is sort of the sole breadwinner and has to feed five mouths.”

According to the teen, she usually only showers at night. However, debates about taking morning showers made her keen on taking a shower in the morning as well. “So lately I’ve been taking morning showers,” she shared. “But this means an extra set of clothes to be washed, the heater to be turned on and occasionally the lights when I have morning class.

“But with the electricity and water I’m using, it caused my dad to turn off the heater and lights while I’m showering and complain about how many clothes there are to wash now.”

Although she told her father about how cold the water gets, he “doesn’t care”, she claimed, as he is the one who pays the bills. “I get where he’s coming from,” she said. “But I also start to get cold and sick when I dry myself after showering. It’s affecting my physical health.”

She then turned to Singaporeans on the forum to ask for advice on how to get her father to stop complaining and turning off the hot water and the lights. “I just want to shower in the morning and not stink up the train,” she said.

Singaporeans respond with advice for cold showers

Surprisingly, many people who commented on her post shared the benefits of taking cold showers in the morning. According to Healthline, taking a cold shower comes with many benefits—from increasing endorphins to boosting metabolism and even aiding circulation. These factors can help the body have a stronger immune response.

Still, others urged her to understand her family situation and find alternatives to make things work. An older female took to the comments section to share that she was in the same situation in her teenage years. “If your family members are that particular, try alternatives to keep the peace,” she suggested. “To light up the toilet, you can turn on your phone flashlight and place it below a glass cup (or a see-through plastic cup) and place it somewhere in the toilet where it can’t get wet, it will be bright enough to shower…

“If you want to shower with warm water, get yourself a big bucket, boil water, and mix it with tap water, and get a smaller bucket with a longer handle to scoop the water out to shower. It’s just an extra 5-minute step to do in the morning. If there’s a will, there’s a way. Tell yourself you won’t be doing this forever, just temporarily, and be thankful you still have your father around.”

See also: ‘My dad has a gambling addiction, but my mother has to work to pay off his debts’ — 23 y/o daughter reveals her mental struggles

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