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What do I do? — Man seeks advice on how to deal with ‘overly needy’ girlfriend who also ‘invaded his personal gaming space’

A man whose girlfriend “invaded” his “personal gaming space,” leading him to drop a team member and causing their rank to also drop, has asked for advice on how to deal with her. He described the woman as depressed as well as “overly needy” and the man appears to be at his wits’ end because of her behaviour.

“What do I do? Sometimes she even resort(s) to coming over to my place during my work at home just to squeeze out every last drop of time I have left,” he wrote in an Apr 24 post on the NUSWhispers Facebook page.

He explained in his post that his girlfriend pesters him to be with her or game with her “all the time.”

And when he tells her he’s busy, he claims that she makes a big deal of it. 

“I had to resort to telling her a white lie that I am busy at work sometimes, just to catch a breather,” he added. 

From his post, it seems that she often asks him to game with her during his free time, especially when she’s bored.

He added that she did not last long in the job she last had and is currently “mostly a stay home person.”

However, in spite of her being jobless, he added, “I already do all her chores, go to work to support our living and now I am also expected to entertain her the entire day?”

The man took special exception to his girlfriend having “invaded my personal gaming space by joining my 5-man team with my kakis, thanks to that, we had to exclude one of us so that she can join my games, even had my bro bitching to me that she is causing our ranking to drop because of her low skill level.”

However, he did not tell his girlfriend about their low ranking, as he did “not want to create drama.”

Netizens seemed only too ready to answer his question of what he should do.

A number of commenters advised him to get her to seek help for her depression or her addiction to gaming.

Others were less kind and told him to “dump her fast.”

One commenter told the man to tell the woman to get a job.

/TISG

‘I am living in hell now from all the stress,’ Man who ‘married a woman out of his league’ seeks advice

Jamus Lim: From Dreaming of Being a Garbage Collector to Advocating for Fair Wages

In a Facebook post about #CleanSG Day at his constituency, Sengkang GRC, Workers’ Party Member of Parliament Jamus Lim wrote that he had once aspired to be a garbage collector as a young boy.

The MP, an Associate Professor in economics at ESSEC Business School, wrote that “perhaps I was enamored by the trucks” by way of explanation for wanting to have been a garbage collector, but added that at present, part of his estate walk routine every week is to inspect rubbish chutes and collect trash, plus holding the now quarterly #SengkangGRC #CleanSG Day. 

He had appeared to have forgotten about this childhood ambition but had been reminded about it over breakfast recently by his mother.

“So in some ways, things have truly come full circle!” he added.

In the rest of his Apr 24 post, he made two important points. 

One, that the cleanliness of one’s surroundings is everyone’s job, and that no one should think that it’s someone else’s responsibility to clean up after them.

“After all, the trash we generate is because of our own choices about what we consume and dispose,” the WP MP wrote, adding that he sees cleaners “as being there to help us along the way.”

And perhaps more importantly, he tackled the issue of a minimum wage.

Assoc Prof Lim said that when he had first gone overseas for his studies, he had been surprised to learn that garbage truck drivers “are able to earn a respectable, middle-class income,” adding that “today, their average salary in Australia is $60,000 a year.”

He explained this substantial amount of pay as partially due to minimum wages, heightened productivity from mechanization, and a factor economists term as “‘compensating differential’; the premium a worker receives for taking on a job that is risky or unpleasant.” 

The WP MP then wrote that his dream is that Singapore’s economy “will evolve into one where all workers—not just those at the high end of the educational and talent spectrum—receive sound, living wages that reward them for honest jobs, done well.”

This is the reason why he embraces #CleanSG, as it serves not only to remind everyone of their responsibility for the surroundings but also “as a way to appreciate the value of simple but essential jobs.”

Assoc Prof Lim added, “As restrictions on larger gatherings have relaxed further, we took this opportunity to also make it a community event, and we were fortunate to have Sengkang General Hospital staff, Sengkang Town Council folks, #TeamSengkang volunteers, and even a good number of resident families join us this morning. Thanks to them all, and I hope the experience was as valuable for them as it was for me.”

In a Facebook post about #CleanSG Day at his constituency, Sengkang GRC, Workers’ Party Member of Parliament Jamus Lim wrote that he had once aspired to be a garbage collector as a young boy.

The MP, an Associate Professor in economics at ESSEC Business School, wrote that “perhaps I was enamored by the trucks” by way of explanation for wanting to have been a garbage collector, but added that at present, part of his estate walk routine every week is to inspect rubbish chutes and collect trash, plus holding the now quarterly #SengkangGRC #CleanSG Day.

He had appeared to have forgotten about this childhood ambition but had been reminded about it over breakfast recently by his mother.

“So in some ways, things have truly come full circle!” he added.

In the rest of his Apr 24 post, he made two important points.

One, that the cleanliness of one’s surroundings is everyone’s job, and that no one should think that it’s someone else’s responsibility to clean up after them.

“After all, the trash we generate is because of our own choices about what we consume and dispose,” the WP MP wrote, adding that he sees cleaners “as being there to help us along the way.”

And perhaps more importantly, he tackled the issue of a minimum wage.

Assoc Prof Lim said that when he had first gone overseas for his studies, he had been surprised to learn that garbage truck drivers “are able to earn a respectable, middle-class income,” adding that “today, their average salary in Australia is $60,000 a year.”

He explained this substantial amount of pay as partially due to minimum wages, heightened productivity from mechanization, and a factor economists term as “‘compensating differential’; the premium a worker receives for taking on a job that is risky or unpleasant.”

The WP MP then wrote that his dream is that Singapore’s economy “will evolve into one where all workers—not just those at the high end of the educational and talent spectrum—receive sound, living wages that reward them for honest jobs, done well.”

This is the reason why he embraces #CleanSG, as it serves not only to remind everyone of their responsibility for the surroundings but also “as a way to appreciate the value of simple but essential jobs.”

Assoc Prof Lim added, “As restrictions on larger gatherings have relaxed further, we took this opportunity to also make it a community event, and we were fortunate to have Sengkang General Hospital staff, Sengkang Town Council folks, #TeamSengkang volunteers, and even a good number of resident families join us this morning. Thanks to them all, and I hope the experience was as valuable for them as it was for me.”

/TISG

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‘OCBC scam, a reminder that many innocent victims could lose their life’s savings in the blink of an eye’ — Jamus Lim

‘OCBC scam, a reminder that many innocent victims could lose their life’s savings in the blink of an eye’ — Jamus Lim

Paul Tambyah, Alfian Sa’at, among those slated to speak at vigil for Nagaenthran & Datchinamurthy, who are scheduled for execution later this week

A candlelight vigil will be held on Monday night (Apr 25) from 7-10pm, at the Speakers’ Corner at Hong Lim Park, for two men who are scheduled for judicial execution later this week. More information about the vigil may be found here.

The family of convicted Malaysian drug trafficker Nagaenthran K. Dharmalingam, 34, was told that he would be executed on Apr 27, Wednesday. And Datchinamurthy Kataiah, 36, who has been in a neighbouring cell to Nagaenthran for many years, is scheduled for judicial execution on Apr 29, Friday.

In 2015, the Malaysian national was sentenced to hang, after having been found guilty of smuggling 44.96gm of diamorphine into Singapore in 2011.

After Nagaenthran’s family received word that his execution date had been set, a candlelight vigil for him was organised by activists who have been fighting for a stay of execution, and who also staged a protest against the death penalty earlier this month, also at Hong Lim Park, which was attended by about 400 Singaporeans and permanent residents.

“We gather on Monday for a candlelight vigil to mark our opposition to this cruelty, and to show his family and the many others on death row that we grieve, rage, and stand with them. Till Nagen is alive, we fight on.

This one week, we have to do everything in our power to demand that the state #stoptheexecution. If enough of us speak up, there is still a chance the President and Cabinet can be moved to grant Nagen clemency,” says the event page on Facebook.

“Nagaenthran. Save him. Only then there will be some relief. Sorry, he has done wrong. Everyone, please help.” This is what the mother, Panchalai Supermaniam, said in Malay, translated into English.

Activists have been fighting his execution for many months, arguing that Nagaenthran has an IQ of 69 and suffers from an intellectual disability.

On Sunday (Apr 24), the Transformative Justice Collective, a group aiming to reform Singapore’s criminal justice system, starting with the abolition of the death penalty, announced that among the speakers at the vigil are Singapore Democratic Party chairman Dr Paul Tambyah and playwright, poet and writer Alfian Sa’at.

Rappers Subhas Nair and Opus Renegade are also part of the line-up of performers.

Mr Nair has made his stand against the death penalty clear, appearing in court last year to face charges wearing a shirt with Nagaenthran’s face printed on it.

“We must abolish the death penalty. No state should have the right to take a human life. Solidarity with Naga and his family,” he wrote in an Instagram post in November 2021.

Transformative Justice Collective also said in another tweet that actors Neo Swee Lin and Lim Kay Siu will be performing a sing-along as part of the vigil.

On March 30, Singapore carried out its first execution in more than two years. Abdul Kahar bin Othman, 68, had been convicted on two charges of trafficking diamorphine in 2013 and given the death penalty two years later. /TISG

Candlelight vigil for Nagaenthran on April 25, two days before his scheduled execution

Thor is in Singapore! — Photo of lightning strike heading straight to an HDB flat window sparks witty explanations from netizens

With Singapore in the middle of the monsoon season, photographers are on standby to capture amazing shots of nature’s fury, such as a perfectly-timed lightning strike!

“Looks like it’s heading straight into the house,” wrote Facebook page The Photographic Society of Singapore member Mak Wei Seng in a post on Saturday (Apr 23).

He attached a photo of a lightning strike, appearing to be targeting a specific HDB unit located between Redhill and Queenstown MRT station.

Photo: FB screengrab/The Photographic Society of Singapore (PSS)

“Does anyone know why the lightning did not strike the top of the building where the lightning rods are located?” he asked.

With over 100 comments to date, members from the online community shared thoughts on what happened.

“Lightning was said to strike the widest area of the lightning rod and not at the tip of the rod. This means it usually strikes slightly lower, and that is also why the lightning rod has to be way higher than the building top or else the building will likely get struck instead of the rod,” explained Facebook user Nigel Ng.

Others asked if the building was under construction, as this could mean the scaffolding became the lightning conductor. However, the original poster confirmed that it was a completed building with occupants.

Meanwhile, Facebook user Hengster Kor commented with a photo of what a typical lightning strike absorbed by a lightning rod would look like.

Photo: FB screengrab/The Photographic Society of Singapore (PSS)

The photo also garnered witty explanations such as the Norse mythology God of Thunder, Thor, currently residing in said HDB unit and summoned the lightning.

“No la…Thor summoning lightning from his HDB unit,” said Facebook user Ian Wui. “Now we know where Thor stays,” added another netizen.

Facebook user Andrew Boey had another assumption, “Now you know which unit stole the lightning rod,” the comment got nearly 200 likes. /TISG

“Mighty Khor” memes abound after lightning strikes manhole at Bukit Batok

TADA taxi driver asks female passenger to pull down her mask so that he could see how her face look like, if he could go up to her home, and other alarming questions

A female passenger who booked a cab home using the Tada app became the victim of intrusive questions from the driver, who asked her if she could pull down her mask, so he could see her better, among other requests.

Facebook page Complaint Singapore member Estella Ong shared details of her taxi ride home in a post on Monday (Apr 25). The driver allegedly began asking Ms Ong personal questions such as her age or if the house she stayed in was a rental or owned.

“So I told him that it was a rental and I stay with my kids,” said Ms Ong before a follow-up question by the driver asking her to remove her mask.

“I told him that I don’t want to remove my mask, and there’s no reason for me to remove it,” she said.

“He said that he just wants to see my face without my mask on; he wants to know how exactly how I look like,” she added.

After refusing, the driver carried on by saying that Covid-19 restrictions were lifted, and he wasn’t infected with the virus.

“He add on, saying now outdoor you sure never wear mask de mah. I say, no la. I still got wear.”

The driver eventually started another conversation focusing on the design of Ms Ong’s residence.

He asked about the soundproof quality, the design of her room, whether it was near the main door and if her neighbour’s unit was near hers.

“I just told him that my neighbour unit is extremely near to me, and I have a strong relationship with my neighbour.”

Then the driver asked Ms Ong if he could go up to her house.

“I straight-up tell (him), NO. Are you crazy?” she said, to which the driver asked why not.

At this moment, Ms Ong messaged her cousin, informing her of the current situation. Her cousin confirmed she would meet Ms Ong at the roundabout.

After they exited Balestier Road, the driver asked if Ms Ong had a driver’s license.

“I told him no again, and he say oh now a lot of females driving PHV (private-hire vehicles),” said Ms Ong.

Upon reaching their destination, Ms Ong’s cousin and aunt confronted the driver, asking him why he requested such things.

“His explanation was that he didn’t see before HDB (Housing and Development Board) rental house, so he just wants to have a look and regarding about the mask, he just wants to have a look at me full face,” said Ms Ong.

The concerned individual asked the community what she should do next as she tried calling Tada’s hotline to no avail.

“Lastly, I would like to create awareness to all female passengers about this incident that happened to me,” she added.

Netizens advised Ms Ong to file a police report immediately.

Ms Ong attached a photo of the driver’s details.

Photo: FB screengrab/Complaint Singapore

Facebook user Ashwini Sivaraja also commented that she experienced the same thing with the same driver, sparking concern that there could be other victims.

The Independent Singapore has reached out to Tada for a statement.

UPDATE: April 26, 2022

TADA Statement

TADA has responded and clarified the incident yesterday with the below statement:

TADA does not condone any form of harassment and has zero-tolerance for any interaction that compromises the security and well-being of our riders and drivers.

We are currently in contact with the rider in question to provide support and have initiated a thorough investigation of the matter. We are also reviewing past trips of the driver in question and have reached out to other riders that may have been affected by similar behaviour.

We are committed to seeing this matter through in a fair manner and will continue to keep the impacted parties fully updated on the results of our investigation, as well as any resulting actions we will be taking. Additionally, the TADA team will fully cooperate with any external investigations initiated.

TADA is committed to ensuring the safety of all our riders and drivers in the TADA family and will not hesitate to take strong action against anyone found to be in violation of our safety and anti-harassment policies. /TISG

Auntie taxi driver breaks down after allegedly provoked by passenger

Man punches taxi driver for telling him to get off as he was on the wrong cab

After getting on a taxi he did not book, an allegedly intoxicated man at Beach Road punched the driver for advising him to get off so that the driver could pick up the correct passengers.

Malcolm Keating, an assistant professor of philosophy at Yale-NUS College, changed his otherwise private account on Twitter to share an incident on Sunday (Apr 24) at the junction of Arab Street and Beach Road.

Mr Keating said he saw a man punch a taxi uncle on Saturday night.

Photo: Twitter screengrab/Malcolm Keating

“He got into our taxi, which was on call, and when the driver asked him to leave, and I opened the back door, he reached up and hit the driver,” said Mr Keating.

The man then left the taxi as Mr Keating began filming him.

“He shoved me into Beach Road (thankfully, I dodged the incoming car!) then walked away while we shouted at him to stop.”

Mr Keating followed the man towards Haji Lane while someone in the background, presumably the driver, said, “Call police! He hit me!”

Photo: Twitter screengrab/Malcolm Keating

“Can someone call the cops on that guy? He just assaulted someone!” said Mr Keating as the man made his way through tables of people drinking.

The man suddenly turned around and gave Mr Keating the middle finger before continuing on his way as no bystanders helped to intervene.

Photo: Twitter screengrab/Malcolm Keating

The video ended with Mr Keating shouting, “This man just assaulted someone! He just assaulted…”

“If anyone recognizes him, please contact the Singapore Police,” said Mr Keating in his Tweet.

The case number is A/20220423/0139.

He also touched base with the taxi driver, who went to the doctor after the incident. “I think he’s okay but shaken up. This was inexcusable behaviour, and I’d like to see this man be held accountable,” wrote Mr Keating.

On Sunday evening, Mr Keating tweeted that the “Internet is amazing” as he was already informed of the man’s name and company based in Singapore.

“I have passed it on to the police and the taxi uncle so he can also send it to the police. I hope they follow up and make an arrest,” he added.

The Independent Singapore has reached out to SPF for a statement. /TISG

Parents of toddler disappointed that ang mohs who threw signboard at their child at Keong Saik not charged and given ‘stern warning’ only

‘Should be our future PM’ — Netizens cheer Pritam Singh after courtesy call from EU Ambassador

On Saturday (Apr 23) Workers’ Party head and Leader of the Opposition Pritam Singh posted a photo of himself with Ms Iwona Piórko, Ambassador of the European Union to Singapore, over social media.

The picture had been taken earlier this week when the Ambassador had paid an introductory courtesy call to Mr Singh at Parliament House.

“Grateful and thankful to the Ambassador for the open and frank exchange, which included a discussion on Ukraine, and local matters such as jobs and foreigners too.

Left the meeting with much food for thought and wished the Ambassador well, and a fruitful stint in Singapore,” the Leader of the Opposition wrote in a Facebook post.

Ms Piórko posted about her meeting with the WP head as well.

The Ambassador, who hails from Poland, began her term in Singapore in September of last year. She has held several positions in the leadership of the EU, including Head of International Affairs at the European Commission’s Directorate-General for Internal Market, Industry, Entrepreneurship, and SMEs.

Mr Singh’s post sparked a flurry of positive comments from netizens, who were happy at the recognition Mr Singh received from the EU Ambassador.

Many commenters called him Singapore’s future leader.

Others, perhaps more realistically, were gratified at the recognition that Singapore’s opposition received due to the EU Ambassador’s courtesy call.

Some commenters took the opportunity to praise Mr Singh.

/TISG

‘We may just witness the second coming of Pritam Singh’ — Netizen expresses confidence in the Leader of the Opposition

Chee Soon Juan: Why all this clearing of forests for housing if the government is not planning for 6.9 million (population)?

Opposition leader Chee Soon Juan questioned the ruling People’s Action Party’s “game plan” for Singapore’s population, linking it to the recent news, including that of three officials being charged over the “erroneous” clearing of a forested area at Kranji.

In January of last year, state-owned industrial property developer JTC Corporation discovered that its contractor had mistakenly cleared a forested area at Kranji. The news sparked a backlash among the public, with many calling for action against those responsible.

On Friday (Apr 22), it was reported that three individuals had been charged with causing the illegal clearance of trees in the area, including two JTC Corporation officers.

Dr Chee, the leader of the Singapore Democratic Party, said that he and other party leaders had gone to Pang Sua Woodland yesterday “to take a look at the area the authorities want to develop for housing,” linking a story about this from The Straits Times from Apr 16.

“As with the other last remnants of wooded areas in Singapore (eg. Bukit Batok, Clementi, Dover, Tengah), the PAP has either already cleared, earmarked or refused to rule out development projects. 

(And horror of horrors, a large tract of Kranji forest was cleared “by mistake”. Three officials are now charged for the error. This still leaves many questions unanswered which I will take up at another time.),” he added.

He claimed that this is part of “the determination to destroy our greenery for continued expansion of HDB towns” which he added is what the SDP “has been and continues to be concerned about: What is the PAP’s game-plan in terms of our population growth?”

Dr Chee added that while Foreign Affairs Minister Dr Vivian Balakrishnan had said during the 2020 General Election that the government does not intend on increasing the population size, “Citizens continue to remain skeptical about the promise. Why all this clearing of forests for housing if the government is not planning for 6.9 million?” 

The SDP head also underlined how “greenery and forests” are “essential” for Singaporeans’ physical and mental well-being.

“As squeezed and as stressful as life is now for the people, the situation is set to get worse as concrete is poured into the few remaining green spaces we have left in this country,” he added, posting links to SDP’s alternative proposals for population growth, housing, and climate change proposals, which may be found on the SDP site. /TISG

JTC should bear responsibility for Kranji woodlands erroneous clearing, says former deputy CEO of HDB

Ho Ching’s list of best defence against scammers starts with ‘Don’t be greedy’

Ho Ching wrote in a Facebook post on Sunday (Apr 24) what she believes is the best defence against scammers, posting a list that begins with “Don’t be greedy.”

Mdm Ho, 69, the wife of Prime Minister Lee Hsien Loong as well as chairperson of  Temasek Trust, is a prolific social media commentator.

Here is her list of “our best defence against scammers.”

Mainly just this: 

Don’t be greedy

Don’t be afraid

Don’t be intimidated

Stay calm

Keep cool.

She went on to enumerate the ways through which scammers hook people. Sometimes they try to tempt them with “claims of fantastic deals out of the blue – a lucky draw prize, a mystery box, a casino tip and so forth.”

Scammers also “often” intimidate individuals by posing as persons in authority such as police, MOH, or immigration officers “and make claims about a crime, a scam, a vaccine problem, a passport problem to try to scare us into not thinking calmly.”

Another modus, she added, is when scammers “appeal to our curiosity or desire to help – they pretend to be a friend in need, or wanting help to solve a crime.”

Mdm Ho also mentioned cases “when the real police showed up, and the scam victim would disbelieve the real police, and insisted that they are fake!

And they would disbelieve their own children, and would believe the stranger who pretends to be an international crime police officer!

What to do?”

She also shared an Apr 16 Facebook post from the Cyber Security Agency of Singapore which warned against cybercriminals who use “social engineering techniques to ‘hack’ the ‘human system’ – exploiting human emotions like fear, uncertainty, and curiosity.”

The post also warned people to not rush to act on an urgent-looking message from banks.

“Guard your emotions, or scammers might get the better of you!” reads a graphic accompanying the post.

Many in Singapore became victims of a phishing scam that targeted OCBC clients over the holidays in December of last year. 

The scam affected 790 victims, with total losses reaching S$13.7 million.

Mdm Ho shared the story of one of the victims, a Mr John Tan, who in a Jan 15 Facebook post wrote that the scam wiped out their family’s life savings.  

The ordeal started when his wife received “a strange message from OCBC, telling her someone was trying to access her account. It was the phising (sic) message, she clicked it”.

“We lost everything in 5 overseas transactions. I called the bank immediately, and they said that it had to be taken up by my wife, because she clicked the link”, Mr Tan added.

After the OCBC scam, agencies including the Accounting and Corporate Regulatory Authority shared tips on how to avoid being scammed, urging people to stay vigilant.
Statista.com also published data on the most common scams in Singapore.

/TISG

ICYMI: Ho Ching shares story of OCBC scam victim, family lost their entire life’s savings

 

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Woman loses $1 million in CPF account to impersonation scam; netizens confused that money can be withdrawn

 

Photo: From canva

A woman who fell victim to an impersonation scam had S$1 million drained from her Central Provident Fund (CPF) savings, sparking concern among netizens that such an amount could be withdrawn from the account.

The victim, 75-year-old Madam Fong (not her real name), said on Friday (Apr 22) that she would receive calls up to three times a day for eight weeks by scammers claiming to be authorities in China.

Read more here.


90-cent durians at FairPrice Bedok draw long queues

 

v and unsplash.com

Singaporeans’ love for queueing was once again highlighted on social media, this time for extra cheap durians.

The FairPrice Bedok outlet is offering a whole durian for S$0.90 instead of the usual S$5, attracting numerous interested customers willing to fall in line to snatch a presumably good deal.

Read more here.


 

Letter to the Editor: Why beer is more expensive in Singapore than in UK? — Question to Lawrence Wong

 

Photo: freepik.com/rawpixel (for illustration purposes only)

Dear Editor,

I have recently returned home from the UK. As someone who enjoys the occasional pint of beer or ale with my meal, I was surprised to discover that for the amount of SGD 5.00-7.00 anyone could have a pint of draught beer in an English pub. There’s a great variety to choose from – Stella to Peroni, Heineken to Fosters and Budweiser to Carlsberg. Served fresh from the tap.

The British pint (568 ml) is larger than the American pint (500 ml). A large bottle of beer here is around 630 ml. So for less money than a large bottle of Tiger, Carlsberg or Heineken (SGD 6.50-8.50) here in our kopitiam, one can enjoy from the tap a pint of draught beer in any English pub. If one goes to a pub or restaurant here, the smaller American pint would be in the region of SGD15.00 onwards after tax.

Read more here.


 

‘I am living in hell now from all the stress,’ Man who ‘married a woman out of his league’ seeks advice

 

Photo: Unsplash/Tiraya Adam (for illustration purposes only).

A man took to the NUS Whispers Facebook page to ask for advice on how to earn more money because he says married to a woman used to an extravagant lifestyle.

“I married a woman out of my league and I kept it a secret that I am struggling to maintain her lifestyle,” he wrote in a post published on Apr 23. While he calls her the girl of his dreams, he admitted that he is “living in hell now from all the stress” of struggling to maintain the lavish lifestyle of yacht parties, vacations, shopping, beauty treatments and other luxuries that she’s used to because of her upbringing.

Read more here.


 

Former NOC actress and producer Nina Tan shares ‘disheartening’ hair loss journey

 

Photo: FB screengrab/
Nina Tan – NOC

Last month, “og NOC girl” Nina Tan broke her long silence on social media to document her new “botak-ness,” showing off three new bald spots in a March 9 Instagram post.

She wrote, “I’ve reach a stage in my life where my body tells me obvious signs when I needa chilllllllz the F out,” adding that she had sought medical help for her hair loss.

Read more here.