Woman asks how she should deal with her 40-year-old boyfriend with over 20 exes

A woman with a rather promiscuous partner took to social media asking how she should deal with him.

In an anonymous post to popular confessions page SGWhispers, the woman wrote that her 40-year-old boyfriend had over 20 past relationships. “I actually wish that he never told me about it”, the woman wrote.

Having been with him for almost two years, the woman wrote that she felt that she would not be her boyfriend’s last relationship. Despite him assuring her that he did not have time to find another girlfriend or to entertain any other girls, she added that she was always insecure whenever he would say he was busy.

“I cannot fully trust his words because when we first got together, he actually got a gf. He covered it so well that it[‘]s until the girl text[s] me then [I] know [of] her existence. She uses his phone while he was asleep, found our chat knowing that im his “gf” too so eventually text me”, the woman wrote, adding that her boyfriend was cheating on her for a few months.

After he called off his relationship with the other woman, she took him back “but deep inside [I] really mind and can[‘]t stop thinking about it”.

Though she was still insecure in her relationship, the woman said that she did not dare to check her boyfriend’s phone lest she comes across messages from another woman.

Her boyfriend changed his phone’s wallpaper to a photo of them, saying that he wanted to prove his love for her. However, she would sometimes notice that it would be a plain image where she suspected he had “forgotten to change it back when he meets me. But he told me he was exploring his new phone, the wallpaper changed without him knowing. What an excuse right?”

Through all of this, she added that she really liked him and was not planning to leave him. However, the thought of him being unfaithful was something that seriously affected her, and she asked netizens for advice on what to do.

Here’s what they said: