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A woman who sincerely dated a divorced man for over a year felt that she was not being treated well by him and took to social media asking netizens for advice on what she should do.

In an anonymous post to confessions page SGWhispers, the woman wrote that the man she was dating had been divorced twice and was older than her by 25 years. He also had a child from his first marriage.

“We met after one year of his second divorce and his ex wife lives in China. She is plastic and golddigger, always asks him for money and branded stuff even after they have separated. And many many times i encountered him still texting her and she still tried to chase after him so that he will always remember their old memory. To me, it is painful to see as i have dated him for one year and i have been sincere”, the woman wrote.

She added that whenever she told the man how uncomfortable she felt with him talking to his ex-wife, “he would explode in anger and shout at me like i am a stray dog that disgusts him. He would make me feel like its my fault to know and want to find out”.

She added that everytime they were together, he would not pay her much attention and often brush her aside.
“I feel so invisible sometimes. Everything is just about him. He wants me to listen and follow whatever he says, he wants to shape me into someone so obedient and nice. He will be unhappy if he finds me go clubbing. But he is free to go ktv, as he has an excuse that its just for business purpose. Even if i also know he has addiction to going ktv with all the plastic girls around him”, she wrote.
She added that the man would often gaslight her by asking her to be more understanding and not be insecure or controlling. The woman also wrote that she was unable to turn to her friends, as they had advised her not to date him.
She asked netizens if she should try to be more forgiving and understanding even if it meant she was unhappy, or if she should leave him and move on.
Netizens were unanimous in their response – they urged her to move on.

Here’s what they said: