The age-old dilemma: Is it better to love or to be loved? This was the issue a netizen faced when caught between a cheating ex who she loves, and another guy who loves her, but she has no feelings for.
The woman took to social media in an anonymous post on confessions page SGWhispers asking netizens for advice on what she should do.
In her post on Tuesday (Sept 27), the woman said that she loves her ex-boyfriend deeply and was trying to salvage the relationship with him. Their relationship ended when he found her stalking him on dating apps. She may have been stalking him on the apps, but he was chatting with and meeting other girls.
“His ego was high and he didn’t want the relationship back. But I can’t lose him totally as my feeling for him was too strong”, the woman wrote.
On the other hand, she wrote that there was another “guy who never fails to give up on me despite my several rejection. He willing to wait for me to move on and we start with friend first. He said willing to wait no matter how long. He will check on me every 2 weeks as I told him not to text me often and I won’t reply. He was a nice guy overall, much more good looking than my ex, patient and gentleman”.
The kicker: She had no feelings whatsoever for the second guy.
Confused, she turned to netizens and asked them for advice on what to do.
Here’s what they said:
