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Lady who finds out she is ‘the other woman’ asks why the man’s wife doesn’t support her because she is “a victim too”

Obbana Rajah
By Obbana Rajah
With a rather twisted sense of logic, the other woman in a relationship asked why her lover’s wife did not support her because she was “a victim too”.
After recently finding out “that I’m a homewrecker”, the lady took to popular confessions page NUSWhispers to share about her interesting relationship. She wrote on Saturday (Mar 26) that only after being in a relationship with a married man for two years did she find out she was the other woman.
“I tried to reach out to his wife and meet with her to explain my point of view, but when we met up, she just slapped me and left after calling me names”, she wrote, adding that the man’s wife did not even let her explain that she was lied to as well. 

While she added that the man had since cut off all contact with her, she added that she still felt guilt for being a homewrecker.

“What hurts me the most is, aren’t girls supposed to support girls? I know his wife will definitely be shocked and angry by the news, but don’t you think I’m a victim too? Instead of hitting me and calling me names, why don’t you ask your husband why he wasn’t truthful to the both of us?”, she wrote in her post.

Netizens who commented on the post were not sympathetic towards her, with many calling her out for holes in her story.
Here’s what they said:
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