things to avoid after an argument

SINGAPORE: A man who found out that his wife had lied about her previous relationships wanted to leave her after just a couple of months of marriage.

In an anonymous post to popular confessions page SGWhispers, the man wrote: “When I first met my wife, she lied abt her previous relationships. She said that she only had one which ended 14years ago and never dated or had anything form of physical contact with anyone after tht for 14yrs till we met”.

He said that when he repeatedly asked her, she even swore upon god and her deceased father. He said: “Although I always knew or maybe had an instinct th[a]t she was not truthful, we eventually kept going and finally got married. Now after a couple of months of marriage I found out things. Confronted her and she finally confessed”.

In his post, the man said he loved his wife a lot, even though he knew she lied and led him into a marriage based on dishonesty. He continued that he was considering ending the marriage because he felt “terribly played and used all this while. I can’t even face the ones she got intimate with becos (sic) it’s many people that (sic) I know”. He asked others in the group what he should do and if he could even heal from it.
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Earlier this year, a troubled husband took to social media asking for advice after his wife wanted a branded bag amounting to three months of his salary. In an anonymous post to popular confessions page SGWhispers, the man wrote: “Recently my wife asked me to buy her an LV set of bags and purse. The set is priced around my 3 months’ salary”.

He added that he tried to talk her out of it by telling her that the bags don’t look good, and that they do not match her clothes and style. However, “To my horror she replied that the reason she wanted it was because it’s priced at around my 3 months’ salary which is almost my entire bonus for the year of 2022. She also added that the purchase of branded bags is in any event an ‘investment’”.

Wife asks husband to buy her LV bags and purse equivalent to 3 months of his salary, she says it’s an “investment”