A woman in a relationship with a married man asked if what they were doing was wrong. Having known the man for almost 10 years, she wrote that they started out as friends but became closer.
“Unfortunately, he’s married. I knew about it since the start. But we are serious”, the woman wrote in an anonymous post on popular confessions page SGWhispers. She added that after some arguments because of his family, they ended their relationship and remained close friends throughout the years.
“Nothing has changed. We truly care. We are always there for each other. However, we got back together recently as “couple” again. We kept everything very private”, she wrote.
She continued that the man was married and had children. Claiming that there was no love between him and his wife. She added that he was “holding onto that marriage because of his parents, in laws and of course, his children. I told him that we can overcome it together but he said that it wouldn’t be fair to me. There are consequences and we can’t foresee the worst to come”.
In her post, she asked netizens if it was stupid to spend all her years with someone she knew there would likely be no outcome with. She expressed that she would want to stay single for him forever, and that she had no regrets.
“Should I continue? We tried many times to stop but everytime when we did, the urge of reconciling is stronger. We even ceased all communications for 2 years, but eventually we still found our way back to each other. It’s a painful journey for the both of us but we are still holding on. Are we really wrong?” the woman asked.
Netizens who commented on her post unanimously agreed that what she was doing was wrong, and they told her so in no uncertain terms.
Here’s what they said:
