A woman who has feelings for a married man asked why her friends would always shut her down whenever she spoke about him.
In an anonymous post to popular confessions page SGWhispers, the woman asked “Why no one loves me”.
She wrote in her post that she was friends with the guy for years, even watching him “start dating, get married, become a father. I’ve watched his babies grow up to become little toddlers and preschoolers”.
She continued: “I didn’t consider him to be anything as I have already given up on settling down. I’m too messed up and I didn’t want to commit to anyone because I’ve had my heart broken all too many times. I don’t believe in love and promises anymore”.
However, she added that she became attracted to him when he started to spend more time with her at work, even feeling like she was in love with him.
“I try so hard to fight this feeling but I find myself drawn to him. I seek his presence. I find myself dreaming of how it’s like being with him. A part of me started to try and dig out info about his wife. She’s an acquaintance so I barely know her. I confided in a friend who knows her and instantly regretted it”, the woman added. She said that her friend immediately shut her down and said that she should just forget it.
However, the woman asked why people immediately liked to shut down her feelings.
“I’m not saying I want or that I can have him. Wouldn’t that be up to him? I know there’s nothing. Can’t I have these feelings without being judged? I didn’t do anything wrong and yet I’m already the bad guy.
Here’s what they said:
In March, with the same twisted sense of logic, another woman in a relationship asked why her lover’s wife did not support her because she was “a victim too”.
After recently finding out “that I’m a homewrecker”, the lady took to popular confessions page NUSWhispers to share about her interesting relationship.
She wrote on Saturday (Mar 26) that only after being in a relationship with a married man for two years did she find out she was the other woman.