Man says that a girl gave him mixed signals for 6 months before she decided she preferred her boyfriend and ghosted him

SINGAPORE: A confused guy took to social media after wondering if he had been led on by a girl for 6 months.

In a post to popular confessions page NUSWhispers, the man wrote: “So I got led on (I think) for a good 6 months by a girl before she decided she preferred her BF and ghosted me”. He asked if he misread the situation as the girl gave him the time of day, went out exclusively with him and allowed him to pay for her meals and activities.

“Are those things a girl typically expects or allows a friend to do? Additional context: she and her BF were going through rocky times and he’s studying in UK. Second question: is it worth it to even go after someone whos taken? Has it worked for anyone before?” he asked.

Here’s what netizens who commented on his post said:

Last year, a man who paid for everything on his first date with a woman asked what he should do when she ghosted him. The man’s anonymous post was titled “When to treat your first date?”

He shared in his post to popular confessions page SGWhispers that he met the girl through a dating app. They spoke every day, and he wrote that the girl seemed very enthusiastic about him while chatting.

“It was a good 9-hour date. I also treated her to almost all of the activities”, he wrote.

However, the man wrote that after their first date, the woman ghosted him and did not even offer to split the bill. “How do I approach this situation? It was a big amount of money”, the man asked.

“What should I do if a girl does not offer to split bill? Felt kena scammed here”, the man added.

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Man says the woman he went on a 9-hour first date ghosted him without splitting bill