Man says his girlfriend constantly needs him to “do stupid things for her” and accuses him of cheating when he tries to break up

Singapore — A man unable to break up with his girlfriend, yet unable to also happily stay in the relationship, asked netizens for advice on what to do.

The 38-year-old man, dating a 36-year-old woman, said that while he was initially very attracted to his girlfriend and thought of her as a fun person to be with, he now found that she would constantly make him “do stupid things for her”.

The man wrote that “She knows how to dress to make me sweat and shows off her best assets so I can overlook some of her flaws. She’s on the meaty side and I’m fine with that. I’m in the normal weight range and don’t mind being with a larger woman”.

Describing some of the things she would make him do, he wrote that she would ask him to buy her things late at night.

“If she’s craving water with lemon slices, she would ask me go 24 hour supermarket and get some lemons and if I don’t do it, it means I don’t love her? Or she would ask me to go 7-11 and get comfort snacks for her late at night. I stay around 30 mins bicycle ride away from her. Both ways will take me more than 1 hour, on top of looking for the items that she want”, he complained. He explained that if he offered to order the items she wanted online, she would often say that she only feels loved if he personally delivers them.

“Sometimes I think she is treating me like a free grab food rider”, he wrote.

Adding that talking to her is useless, “I feel like breaking up with her because I’m starting to get tired of her stupid requests”, he wrote. But, he explained that the moment he brings up the topic, she would accuse him of cheating. He wrote that he was waiting for the “right time” to do it and wanted to “break up with her in the nicest way possible”.

Here’s what netizens said:

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