A girlfriend in a predicament took to social media asking netizens how she should handle the situation when her boyfriend crosses boundaries.
In an anonymous post to popular confessions page SGWhispers, the girlfriend wrote that she had been with her boyfriend for almost two years and that it was an ongoing effort by the both of them to balance their time between their friends and each other.
She added: “BUT I found out that my SO (significant other) had lied to me about going out with a friend of opp gender 1on1. Despite communicating that I am uncomfortable with that, SO decided to lie about it and did it anyways”.
In her post, she wrote that she did not want to come off as too controlling, but she felt that her boyfriend lying to her and crossing the boundaries that they both had set was on another level. She asked netizens how she should communicate this to him and wanted to know what happens when one party in the relationship refuses to respect the boundaries of another.
Here’s what they said:
In April this year, a boyfriend whose girlfriend seemed to want to spend more time with another guy wondered if he was being unnecessarily jealous.
In an anonymous post on Wednesday (Apr 27), the boyfriend asked: “Is it okay for your partner to meet with a guy alone?”.
In his post on popular confessions page SGWhispers, the 24-year-old guy wrote that he had been in his first relationship with his 20-year-old girlfriend for over two months, with things going well. However, he added that he was bothered by his girlfriend’s friend called, Adam.
Last month, a man took to social media to call out all females for being so complicated after he found out his girlfriend was lying to him.
In an anonymous post to popular confessions page SGWhispers, the man wrote that initially, he and his girlfriend were from the same office. However, after they both found new jobs, she met a new male colleague who lives near her, so they often take the MRT home together.
“I am abit insecured (sic) I must say and I voiced out that I don’t like her going home alone with the guy. She said okay. However I already have this feeling that she is lying to me”, the boyfriend wrote. He added that his girlfriend would always reply quickly to his messages, except during the hours of 5.30 pm to 6pm when she travels home. When asked why her replies were slow during that time, she said that she was using her phone and playing a game or watching shows on it.