// Adds dimensions UUID, Author and Topic into GA4
Friday, June 12, 2026
27.7 C
Singapore

Guy would rather pay sugar babies aged 19 – 22 for company than have a relationship; Jade Rasif weighs in

Voicing an unpopular opinion, a 27-year-old guy wrote that he would rather go out with sugar babies instead of finding a girlfriend.

In an anonymous post on confessions page NUSWhispers, the guy wrote: “For the longest time, I bemoaned my lack of dating success. I would look at friends who were attached and feel so much envy. Wondering why couldn’t [I] just find someone who I could care for, and would care for me in return”.

He added that he created an account on Sugarbook, an online dating service that was founded in Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia. Sugarbook is most popular in the Southeast Asian countries of Malaysia, Singapore, and the Philippines. It is known for people to find “mutually beneficial relationships,” sugar babies and sugar daddies.

The guy wrote that after logging on to Sugarbook, he started seeing a few girls from the app. Not all of them were interested in physical relationships, “But it’s fine, I enjoy the company of them all. Taking them out to dinner, chatting with them, sending them home”.

He added that he was 27 years old, but looked for girls between the ages of 19 to 22.

“Some of these girls, for their own reasons need the money, and i’m happy to help them with it and make their life a little easier,” he wrote.

Since he had a job that paid well, he explained that after saving some money and investing some, he had enough to reward himself. “And I gotta say, it feels good,” he wrote.

“Do I still feel the need to rush into a relationship anymore? Nope. Do I still feel jaded at being single? Nope,” the guy concluded his post.

His post garnered almost 100 reactions on Facebook and 70 comments. It also attracted the attention of former DJ and social media personality Jade Rasif.

Ms Rasif, known for being vocal on social media, wrote: “NUS admin, how much did you get paid to post this? Be honest”.

Screen Shot 2022 03 08 at 12.05.03 AM

She added: “I don’t think this should be here. Former NUS student here. One thing to let these financially insecure women eat ur scraps. Another thing to brag about it on a website with university students”.
Others who commented on the post called out the guy’s behaviour as well.
 Screen Shot 2022 03 08 at 12.06.10 AM Screen Shot 2022 03 08 at 12.06.18 AM Screen Shot 2022 03 08 at 12.06.28 AM Screen Shot 2022 03 08 at 12.06.41 AM Screen Shot 2022 03 08 at 12.06.50 AM Screen Shot 2022 03 08 at 12.06.59 AM
- Advertisement -

Hot this week

Shopee cuts Singapore jobs as AI takes over their work; even local software engineers among hundreds of global developer roles are also affected

Employees say layoffs hit product and engineering teams as Shopee deepens its investment in artificial intelligence and automation

‘Loyalty has become a liability’: Singaporeans react to rising retrenchments

Retrenchments have increased over the past few years from 6,440 in 2022 to 13,020 in 2024 and 14,490 in 2025.

Popular Categories

document.addEventListener("DOMContentLoaded", () => { const trigger = document.getElementById("ads-trigger"); if ('IntersectionObserver' in window && trigger) { const observer = new IntersectionObserver((entries, observer) => { entries.forEach(entry => { if (entry.isIntersecting) { lazyLoader(); // You should define lazyLoader() elsewhere or inline here observer.unobserve(entry.target); // Run once } }); }, { rootMargin: '800px', threshold: 0.1 }); observer.observe(trigger); } else { // Fallback setTimeout(lazyLoader, 3000); } });
// //
Enable Notifications OK No thanks