Man asks why his date enjoyed coffee with him, even agreed to a meal at his place on another day, but suddenly said she was not free for the rest of the month

A man trying to figure out the intentions of his date took to social media to ask other netizens for their opinions on the matter.

In an anonymous post to popular confessions page SGWhispers, the man wrote that he met the girl online and spoke to her for a while. After they met and had a date in a café, the man wrote that he felt they “really enjoyed company of each other (talking for almost 5 hours with jokes and everything)”. He added that the girl even paid for coffee and dinner despite his assistance.

“During our meeting we came to know that I like cooking one of her favorite dish. So we planned to meet on Wednesday”, the guy wrote. The next day, he added that the girl had messaged him cancelling their appointment because she claimed to have something else going on that day. However, when he proposed another day for them to meet up, “she said she not possible for this month. I know she quit her job recently and not doing anything special except preparing some documentation to move to New Zealand for work”, he wrote.

Rather confused, the man asked if he should conclude that the girl did not want to meet him anymore.

Asking netizens for advice on what to do, the man wrote: “I don’t understand female psychology well. One thing is for sure that I really liked her personality and her extensive travelling experiences”.

Netizens who responded to the man’s post commented that they felt the girl was interested because she paid for the dinner. However, they explained that she may have found him inviting her over to his place too forward, which led her to run in the opposite direction.

However, there were also others who added that a female paying for a meal was usually her way of rejecting a guy’s advances.

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