Man says the woman he went on a 9-hour first date ghosted him without splitting bill

A man who paid for everything on his first date with a woman asked what he should do when she ghosted him. The man’s anonymous post was titled “When to treat your first date?”.

He shared in his post to popular confessions page SGWhispers that he met the girl through a dating app. They spoke every day, and he wrote that the girl seemed very enthusiastic towards him while chatting.

“It was a good 9-hour date. I also treated her to almost all of the activities”, he wrote.

However, the man wrote that after their first date, the woman then ghosted him and did not even offer to split the bill. “How do I approach this situation? It was a big amount of money”, the man asked.

“What should I do if a girl does not offer to split bill? Felt kena scammed here”, the man added.

Netizens who commented on the post told him that he should have expected that she would not pay him back. Others also said that he should have just taken her out for coffee instead.

Here’s what they said: