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“She is the love of my life and the reason why I’m alive” – Man who tried to withdraw CPF funds to pay for wife’s cancer treatment appeals to public for help

Mr Suriia is appealing for donors to help him raise $50,000 to cope with the hefty expenses that they are grappling with




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47-year-old Mr Suriia Das, a Singaporean who appealed to withdraw his Central Provident Fund (CPF) savings to pay for the medical and hospitalisation bills of his cancer-stricken wife.

Last week, 47-year-old Mr Suriia Das revealed that his wife (also 47) is suffering from stage 4 ovarian cancer and that the CPF Board has declined to allow him to use his own savings that are in his Ordinary and Special accounts for his wife’s medical treatment.

Mr Suriia, who has a 19-year-old son, has been tirelessly caring for his wife since she was diagnosed with cancer in 2016. His wife, Mdm Sarojini Jayapal, has undergone chemotherapy and numerous procedures but is still battling for her life.

Through the years, Mr Suriia exhausted his savings and approached all avenues for help in paying for his wife’s hefty medical bills – he has approached parliamentarians and licensed moneylenders for help in saving his beloved wife.

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Desperate and out of options, Mr Suriia approached the CPF Board and requested for the funds in his Ordinary and Special accounts to be transferred to his wife’s Medisave account. The funds in Mr Suriia’s Ordinary and Special accounts were accumulated from part of his salary over the course of his working life.

Human rights lawyer M Ravi took on the couple’s case pro bono and uploaded a video interview of Mr Suriia and Mdm Sarojini to social media. Mr Suriia said that they opted to seek treatment at Mount Elizabeth Hospital (MEH) and Parkway Cancer Centre (PCC) because the medical institutions “gave her the hope that she will survive”.

In response to the couple’s plight, the Ministry of Health and CPF Board released a joint statement on Friday (12 July) asserting that “misleading information” had been put out. The statement claimed that the couple have chosen to continue treatment at a private facility where there are no subsidies.

MOH and CPF Board further claimed that “CPF-allowed insurance schemes have paid out a total of about $510,000 to date” towards the couple.

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Responding to CPF Board, Mr Suriia called the statement “misleading” and asserted that CPF only paid $60,000 based on medical grounds and the rest is from their own hard-earned Medisave savings and private AXA insurance.

CPF did not release any further clarification. The couple’s lawyer, however, updated on Monday (15 July) that the legal challenge that he filed against CPF Board on behalf of Mr Suriia “is now being amicably resolved with the Board.”

Mr Suriia is now appealing for kind donors to help raise $50,000 to cope with the hefty expenses that they are grappling with.

On the Simply Giving fundraising platform, Mr Suriia revealed that his wife first experienced abdominal discomfort in 2010 but doctors at a government hospital told her that “tests did not reveal that she was suffering from something more severe than just abdominal pain.”

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Six years later, Mdm Sarojini was diagnosed with advanced metastatic ovarian cancer. Mr Suriia wrote: “Since then, she has had her entire womb removed, severe retina complications, mouth sores and her weight plummeted from 76kg to 36kg.

“Every day, she is in constant, agonising pain, managing to eat a few mouthfuls of solids, and being fed intravenously most of the time.”

In the heart-wrenching appeal, Mr Suriia poured out his love for his wife and asserted that he and his son can’t afford to lose her. He said: “I want her to have hope and fight it, hope will bring miracle. My son and I can’t afford to lose her. She is the love of our lives, in fact she is the reason why I am alive. To others it is just a person but to me she is everything.”

A newly married Mr Suriia and Mdm Sarojini (photo: Simply Giving)

Revealing that they are not receiving any public government assistance, Mr Suriia wrote that he is “unable to sustain the huge financial burden that battling cancer has taken on us.”

Each chemotherapy treatment apparently costs them around S$16,000 and they have to fork out 30 per cent out of pocket after insurance. Through the years, Mr Suriia has also incurred expensive medical arrears and also has to provide for his school-going son.

Desperately appealing for help, Mr Suriia wrote: “I am confused, desperate and lost. I really don’t know what to do. I am still silently crying out loud – won’t anyone help me to save her life. Please hear my plea in the midst of my wife’s unending battle with cancer.”

Mr Suriia has managed to raise just over S$5,000 of the S$50,000 he needs. Read his appeal and donate HERE. -/TISGFollow us on Social Media

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